Yes I know thats an oxymoron…
I read a lot of blogs and articles about weight loss and being the best you can be (in a non Oprah sense)…its just a topic thats interests me – places like Sarah Wilson, Diminishing Lucy and even the WW FB page let me dip my toe into the world of food where the world of food makesÃƒâ€šÃ‚Â you feel and look better.
When working with people experiencing sudden andÃƒâ€šÃ‚Â traumatic life changes, or even trauma’s thats creep up over a period of time, its fair to say that whatever brochures or pamphlets may to be thrust intoÃƒâ€šÃ‚Â hands in those moments will have a looking after yourselfÃƒâ€šÃ‚Â list attached. A few centuries ago when I was working as a social worker I scoffed at the inclusion of eating healthily on these lists. I kept thinking that people had enough on their plate without some bleeding heart telling them what to eat and what to do with their ‘me’ time. I just thought it was about surviving anyway you knew how (and if that meant scoffing chocolate secretly in the pantry then so be it).
But then a few years back I joined WW – it was scary and confronting and exhilarating all at the same time. I found that in the midst ofÃƒâ€šÃ‚Â my uncontrollable life controlling what I put in my mouth made me feel strong and powerful and in return I had the added bonus of feeling better – I slept better, I felt more comfortable in my own skin and I actually stopped and looked at myself rather than slinking away from the puffy reflection that had greeted me for a fair few years before that.
Part of getting older, being exposed to people’s intimate life experiences and actually feeling good about me made me rethink those scoffing moments when I read or write self help literature for people suffering a loss. Thinking about what you eat is just an extension of looking after yourself and in the midst of chaos and trauma maybe thats the one thing that can be controlled.
CanÃƒâ€šÃ‚Â food one of the controllable parts of our life…what are some of the others?